More sleep, without sleep training.

I help exhausted moms who want to stay responsive to their baby. No cry-it-out, no pressure to wean, no generic schedules.

Does this sound like you?

  • Your little one doesn't follow the sleep windows in any app, and you're starting to wonder if something's wrong. (It isn't.)

  • You're second-guessing yourself constantly. Everyone has an opinion and none of them match.

  • Instagram keeps telling you feeding to sleep is a bad habit. It isn't. It's biologically normal.

  • You're exhausted, but leaving your baby to cry alone goes against every instinct you have.

You don't have to choose between being responsive and getting sleep. I can help you do both.

Hi, I'm Gillian.

I'm a dual-certified IBCLC and Holistic Sleep Coach, and I've been supporting families for over 17 years, first in San Francisco and now in West Cork. I look at sleep and breastfeeding together, because they're deeply connected and treating them separately is where most sleep advice goes wrong.

My approach is built around your child's temperament and your family's values. No cry-it-out. No pressure to wean. No plan you'll dread following at 3am.

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How I can help

  • Work with me

    One-to-one sleep, feeding and lactation support, tailored to your little one.

  • Night Weaning Guide

    Ready to drop night feeds gently? My step-by-step guide, €35.

  • Book a free call

    Not sure where to start? Let's talk it through.

  • Free guide

    14 Quick Wins for Better Sleep. Free to download.

"Our 13 month old girl was feeding through the night, having multiple wakeups and co-sleeping. Since working with Gillian she has moved to her own room and has night weaned. Dad is now more involved and resettles her if needed during the night. Gillian was brilliant to work with. Small changes made a big difference."

Ellen Murphy ★★★★★

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You're not doing anything wrong.

Some little ones just need more support with change than others, and so do some moms. If you're at the point of exhaustion, let's talk.